Introduction
Be Generous
Help This Person
Introduce Others
Serve, Don’t Sell
When It’s Hard, Do More
Give Away Good Ideas
Promote Others Online
Kindness First
Be Expert
Use Social Media in a Genuine Manner
Do What You Do Best
Start Small
The Basics Matter
Prove It
Specialize
Be Trustworthy
Don’t Always Trust Your Judgment
Tell the Whole Truth
Be Perfect
Be There in Tough Times
Use Levels of Substance
Respect the Authenticity Condition
Be Clear
Have ONE Point
Minimize the Trivial
Use a Lot More Pictures
Follow The Theory of Seven
Get Feedback, and Use It
Ask for 3 Criticisms
Be Open-Minded
Travel in New Circles
Attack Your Blind Spots
Make Bold Proposals
Point/Counterpoint
Admit It, You’re in Show Business
Be Adaptable
Change the Cover
Rewrite, Rewrite, Rewrite
Use Fear to Your Advantage
Partner
Think (a Bit) Like an Academic
Keep Learning
Be Persistent
Don’t Take No Answer as a No
Exceed Promises
Ask for Referrals
Take Credit
Exhibit Grit
Be Present
Really Listen
Talk Less
Change Your Perspective
Be Ultra-Quiet
Breathe
Get in Front of People
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Ask for Referrals
Hands down, the most profitable way to find new customers (or supporters or investors or partners) is to motivate others to refer people to you. Most people don't pour enough energy into harvesting this low-hanging fruit.
Here are five ways to get started, but I'm confident you can think of even more - if you invest time and energy into this fruitful activity.
1. Be bold - ask for referrals:Most people make the most fundamental mistake; they fail to even ask for a referral, or they settle for just one. Ask others for referrals, and when they give you one, ask for another.
2. Celebrate: Life is short; find excuses to celebrate, and when you do, invite others, and suggest they bring their friends. Such celebrations aren't the place to engage in blatant self-promotion but rather to build relationships and show other people how good it must feel to know you.
3. Support what your network supports: Raise meaningful amounts of money for charities, schools, and other causes about which your stakeholders care. Invest 95% of your time and efforts in providing support to those organizations; don't make the mistake of spending more money bragging about your generosity than on actually being generous.
4. Make your references easy to access: A friend of mine wants to renovate his kitchen and has been meeting with contractors. He was especially impressed by one, simply because the man had all his references organized by year and type of job. Plus, he was open to having my friend call anyone he wished. This sort of open, frictionless approach to references provides prospective customers with tremendous amounts of reassurance.
5. Say thanks: After someone has helped you, be sure to write or call to say thank you. Don't forget to ask if there is some way you can help them. And when you say "help," you better mean it. If you feel that way, it will show, and if it shows, you'll be rewarded with more referrals than you ever dreamed possible.