Introduction
Be Generous
Help This Person
Introduce Others
Serve, Don’t Sell
When It’s Hard, Do More
Give Away Good Ideas
Promote Others Online
Kindness First
Be Expert
Use Social Media in a Genuine Manner
Do What You Do Best
Start Small
The Basics Matter
Prove It
Specialize
Be Trustworthy
Don’t Always Trust Your Judgment
Tell the Whole Truth
Be Perfect
Be There in Tough Times
Use Levels of Substance
Respect the Authenticity Condition
Be Clear
Have ONE Point
Minimize the Trivial
Use a Lot More Pictures
Follow The Theory of Seven
Get Feedback, and Use It
Criticize Me, Please
Be Open-Minded
Travel in New Circles
Attack Your Blind Spots
Make Bold Proposals
Point/Counterpoint
You’re in Show Business
Be Adaptable
Change the Cover
Rewrite
Use Fear to Your Advantage
Partner
Think (a Bit) Like an Academic
Keep Learning
Be Persistent
Don’t Take No Answer as a No
Exceed Promises
Ask for Referrals
Take Credit
Exhibit Grit
Be Present
Really Listen
Talk Less
Change Your Perspective
Be Ultra-Quiet
Breathe
Get in Front of People
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Get Feedback and Use It
I once had a professor who demonstrated the power of feedback this way. He sent a student outside and then hid an object in the room. He then brought the student back, blindfolded, and asked him to find the object without being told what the object was.
We all knew the location and identity of the object, and every time he moved towards it, we were allowed to clap once. This was a demonstration of positive feedback. It took a long time for him to find the object.
We then did the exercise again with another volunteer, but this time, we were able to also stomp our feet to provide negative feedback, meaning that the volunteer was moving in the wrong direction.
This volunteer succeeded quickly. The lesson was that in an ideal situation, you receive both negative and positive feedback.
The Lean Startup movement is all about getting specific feedback from actual customers as early as possible in the process of launching a new business. This is in direct contrast to the old way of starting a venture, which was to spend months writing a business plan that almost certainly was not going to describe what would really happen.
People think differently. You can’t succeed without getting the perspective of many other people, otherwise known as feedback.
Of course, it can be much harder to use feedback than to gather it. People – myself included – tend to fall in love with their own ideas. They are impatient – myself included – to get something done, rather than to study the best way to do it. Both of these are serious vulnerabilities.
Think of feedback as insurance against a disaster.