Introduction
Be Generous
Help This Person
Introduce Others
Serve, Don’t Sell
When It’s Hard, Do More
Give Away Good Ideas
Promote Others Online
Kindness First
Be Expert
Use Social Media in a Genuine Manner
Do What You Do Best
Start Small
The Basics Matter
Prove It
Specialize
Be Trustworthy
Don’t Always Trust Your Judgment
Tell the Whole Truth
Be Perfect
Be There in Tough Times
Use Levels of Substance
Respect the Authenticity Condition
Be Clear
Have ONE Point
Minimize the Trivial
Use a Lot More Pictures
Follow The Theory of Seven
Get Feedback, and Use It
Ask for 3 Criticisms
Be Open-Minded
Travel in New Circles
Attack Your Blind Spots
Make Bold Proposals
Point/Counterpoint
Admit It, You’re in Show Business
Be Adaptable
Change the Cover
Rewrite, Rewrite, Rewrite
Use Fear to Your Advantage
Partner
Think (a Bit) Like an Academic
Keep Learning
Be Persistent
Don’t Take No Answer as a No
Exceed Promises
Ask for Referrals
Take Credit
Exhibit Grit
Be Present
Really Listen
Talk Less
Change Your Perspective
Be Ultra-Quiet
Breathe
Get in Front of People
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Social media ghostwriting
Don't Take No Answer As a No
Bummer. You emailed an editor two days ago, and he hasn’t responded. Guess he hated your pitch, so you better move on to the next prospect.
Not!
Do not reach out one time. Do not reach out once a week. Every day you need to reach out to others, and you need to be persistent about checking back with people.
That editor might be:
On vacation
Traveling
Obsessed with an important deadline
Unaware your pitch is in his spam folder
Confusing you with someone else
Don’t take no answer as a no.
When you put your goals and reputation on the line, it’s easy to become overly sensitive to the slightest “slights.”
“Did he hate my idea?” you might wonder. “Maybe he thinks I’m an idiot for daring to think that I deserve to be associated with his projects.”
These, and 100 other potential negative thoughts, are self- defeating. Rather than guessing about his lack of response, wait a few more days, and then, send a polite follow-up note. If that doesn’t work, wait a few days, and call him. You will probably end up leaving a message, so be sure it is positive, upbeat, and concise.
Above all else, assume success until another outcome is proven without a shadow of a doubt. If things don’t work out, recharge your batteries (quickly), and bring the same positive energy to another prospect.